YAAAAY!!!

I hear the anguish about your voice. I can get mine quite feminine-sounding, but only consistently when I'm alone. Just can't make it happen except in blips with people around, even my close friends. All I can say is what you no doubt already know, so I'll skip the lecture I'm ill-prepared to give anyways.

Voice-altering surgery has incredibly mixed results. Usually not worth the risks. I'm not really of the same opinion on surgeries, but to each her own on that.